I am a single mom of a 6yo with pdd-nos (adhd, odd, blah blah blah) looking for other parents to comiserate with. Jesse is my only child and I find myself constantly debating "is it him or is it me?". I sought professional help after years of urging from other people involved with my son on a regular basis. Never having spent much time with children and having none of my own to compare him to, I thought Jesse was a typical toddler and that I was just a bad parent. Today, even with his diagnosis and medication I still doubt myself as a parent. The subtleties of his pesonality throw me.