Refocusing on other people who were going through the same or worse things and trying to help them really helped me to pull through. I had two close friends one had a stroke and the other was involved in a horrific accident that took his legs. I dug into the bible and found all the positive encouraging scriptures I could find and concentrated my mind on them and my friends. This led to seeing my and their circumstances through different eyes and really led to a life changing “paradigm.” Later on I pulled all these together on my company website http://www.pc-min.com pc min is short for Physically Challenged Ministry [separate from organized church] so we avoid all the baggage that drives people apart and are able to bring people who happen to have a “physical challenge” together.