I'm still learning to not be defined by what I have, where I live, or what I've done. I want to be defined by the people to whom I made a difference, the people that I made sure they knew they mattered. I'm also learning to be single again, and my diagnosis played a big part in why I stayed six years to long. Who would want an overweight, over-40, fibromyalgic with a different concern every day!?! Well, I answered that question, finally, with - "I do!"