After 20 years, still looking for a diagnosis: I've been married to my high school sweetheart for 23 years, and have a wonderful teenage son and daughter. My symptoms started in 1989, and over 30 doctors have not been able to give a definite diagnosis. They are all mystified. I'm an engineer, but since Feb 2009 I haven't been able to work due to the intensity of my symptoms. I enjoy volunteering for a non-profit organization that helps world poverty, when my symptoms subside and I am able. My relationship with Christ and my family give me strength and a reason to want to keep living.