I'm a mother of 4 wonderful children,Jessi 23 in her 2nd yr of med school, Joe 21 finding himself, Christina 20 in college,Sarah 16 soph in High school.A supportive husband and I are trying to understand why I feel like I'm 65 at 44. why all of a sudden a normal healthy active person can have pain in every joint, spasms down the entire muscles in the back, along with aching Pain!! Start forgetting things like a person with the onset of Alzheimer's! Step out of bed feeling like a stiff board, feet feel swollen and tender as they touch the floor,my knees struggle to get moving. This is insane