I am a 60 year old gay male, who has been out for only 12 years. I'm not real crazy about being HIV+ but I guess it could always be worse. I know 3 people in the last 6 months who have been diagnosed with cancer, 2 with pancreatic. Life's not always fair you know. I still haven't told anyone who's near and dear to me, including family. Had a near miss a couple of weeks ago with my ex-lover. I guess time will take care of everything.