im 56 and a mother of 7,married and with the same man for 22 years. my second husband was diagnosed in june of 85 but werent sure if he had aids ,black lung(bread maker) or the tumor in his brain.so with that they put on his death cert. that he died of natural causes i had a daugther with him who is today 23 and negitive.i was tested twice a year for 6 years and all were negitive.i was told after all these years that i was good to have a relationship so i got married in 2003 and still neg.in june 2005 i got very sick and was hospitalized, bacterial meningitis,endocardious,stroke,etc