For anyone out there who feels like their story is close to mine, or newly diagnosed - here are the tips I have learned I would like to share.
Weight gain/balance
- I did started pilates which helped with core strenght and balance
- With core and balance in place I increased cardio
- I switched to Bupropion - I was on Lexapro which I think made me gain some of the weight. I made the switch and much of the weight came off.
- In two months I went from 140 lbs to 119 lbs
Bladder/Bowel
- This was the lowest point for me
- Went to counselor - she talked me thru the stress (which was also adding to my weight gain) and ways to work thru
- I tried hypnosis, but working with a urologist - I got the medications I needed into place
- While working thru medications/counseling/etc I bought two of every pant/skirt I wore to work. This way if I had an accident, I could go to the bathroom clean up and put on the same bottoms and not have to explain the outfit change in the middle of the day. Before I came up with the buy two of everything - I found the closest Target and would just go there to purchase new underwear, pants - clean up and go on with the day like nothing happened.
Like I said in the shorter paragraph - this hasn't been easy. I have hit some of the lowest lows in my life. But if anyone is going thru what I have been thru - I just wanted to say... It gets better, take control and just take steps. Anything to move forward - new medication, new workout plan, etc You can't let it defeat you.